Finish up your Inventory and start building a new life

4. Make every amend.

Column four: List the completed amends. A lot of us have a couple of amends we’re afraid to make, and they seem insurmountable, impossible. Everyone but that one you’re willing to do. That’s the very one that keeps you from moving forward with your life blueprint.

Think of it as the biggest rock on the lot and it sits where you want your living room. It has to go. Make the amends, blast it out of there and you’re free to start living life.

When your lot is clear. You can start making changes. You can start building your mansion. You have cleaned up the wreckage of your past. It’s okay to feel really good about your self.

Self analysis is essential. You either go backward or stand still without Analysis. Analyze and move forward even if the pace is slow.

5. Six fears - Obstacles that get in the way of living life fully

• Fear of what others think
• Fear of losing a relationship
• Fear of appearing foolish
• Fear of failure
• Fear of success

Your completed personal inventory will rid your mind of most of these. Then concentrate on your basic needs:

Food & water Shelter Clothing Of course you want some fluff.  It’s your blueprint put in everything you want and then don’t be lazy about working on it. You get out of life exactly what you put into it.

How are you doing? Look at the blueprint and check your progress. Do you need any corrections or changes?

How are your habits for budgeting time and money? Any conduct that your inner self disapproves of?

Are you giving more and better service? Have you made one person smile today?

You have the freedom to think what you want; make it count. Thoughts are things.

Summary Ask yourself:

• Have you attained the goal? 
• Have you  listed every person and made every amends?  Have you made an honest amend?
• Have you gotten rid of one resentment a day? Remember the resentment shredder.
• Has your spirit been in harmony with the task of cleaning up your past? 
• Is there anyone left you blame?
• Do you see self improvement, are you a nicer person? Are you enjoying life?
• Are you able to enjoy being with myself and be okay?
• Are you willing to correct when you’re wrong and promptly admit it?

Take responsibility for your choices and actions. What choices propel you toward a finished blueprint?
Keep your life simple. No more shoulda, woulda, coulda. You are the  architect. Build your life.

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 Personal Inventory . . . 5 Powerful Steps
Personal Inventory the Most Important Step

You’ve decided you’d like to change some things in your life. 

You may have already started making changes. Or at least you’re thinking life would be better if you changed a few things about yourself.

We’re not talking about buying a new refrigerator.  We’re talking major inside of you spiritual changes.

Think of a personal inventory as clearing the lot. Let’s say you bought a lot on which to build your new custom dream home and the lot was full of brushes, brambles, rocks and trees. You’d have to clear it before you could build, right?

 Experts agree without clearing out your mental junk, taking a thorough personal inventory; there is little room for the new you. Thru the years you’ve built up anger, resentments, guilt, misgivings, misguided blame for your life.  

Before you can expect changes to occur, you’ll have to clean up the wreckage of your past.

1. You do that with a thorough  personal inventory. Let’s get started. 

Make a list of everyone you know. Past, present, dead or alive. Make a 4-column list:

Column one: List all the people you know; live and dead Column two list your misconduct, act, or deed that may have harmed them, don’t start justifying, this is your inventory. 

Column three lists the amends you owe Column four checked off when you make the amends.

2. I done somebody wrong list.  In column two: List every wrong, no matter how small. This is your lot you’re clearing, don’t leave tree stumps. You have to remove them.

3. Third column: What amends are your going to make?

If the person is living, you need meet face to face, if that’s not possible then a  phone call, If that’s not possible then a letter. No emails. Real hand written letters.

If the person is dead write a letter and mail it. It will go to a dead letter office.

You do not need to elaborate, justify or ramble. Just apologize for whatever the wrong was.

If it was monetary, pay back the money, if it was personal, apologize. 

You are making a life skills assessment as well. You have qualities you will want to grow and traits you’ll want to change and/or get rid of.

Do this much and we'll give you part two in the next post.

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How to Buy Self Help Ebooks

Introduction:

Self help Ebooks are big business.
It seems that millions of people, just like you and me, are seeking ways to improve their lot in life.

They’re looking for ways to make life changes, to make their life work. They are hoping to feel better about themselves.

They are seeking spiritual self help; they’re looking for AHA moments. People look for self help books because they are unhappy with some aspect of their life.

Mary Engelbreit:
“If you don’t like something, change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.”

Here’s a common pattern: you read an ad, you like their promise and say, “That’s for me.”

You buy their product and then you do nothing.

Most people read a book, then set it aside and wonder why their life hasn’t changed.

People pay thousands of dollars every year for self help:

Webinars
Seminars
Classes  Ecourses
Books and Ebooks
Videos and CDs

If you don’t do what is suggested;  you’ve spent a lot of money and your life situation remains the same.

Why?

Victor Frankle says it so well
“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”

Most people want the book to change them. It doesn’t work that way.

To bring about change, you must be willing to change.

People are often dissatisfied with present conditions.

They are dissatisfied about some aspect of their present life:

Relationships
Finances
Health
Spiritual quest
Spiritual itch

Or they simply feel that life sucks.

Who are these people?

Anyone who is not satisfied with life.

People of all ages, sizes and characteristics are searching for:

A better way
A more peaceful life
More money
Better sex
Improved relationships
Self knowledge

People of all ages seek to improve their life through:

Self change
Changing partners
New cars
Sex and drugs
Self help books
Other personal growth tools

Peoples’ unhappiness is Big Business.

Mignon Mclaughlin:
“It’s the most unhappy people who most fear change.”

With the current economic conditions, many more people are experiencing dissatisfaction and depression.

 A good time to buy self help products is right now. During tough economic times, more and more people seek relief; they are looking for a feel better course of action.

Author Unknown:
“ If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies.”

The majority of people buy self help Ebooks online. There are millions of sites offering self help books, Ecourses, videos, and CDs.

Some have something to offer and others are simply junk.

So how do you know?
How do you keep from getting ripped off?

There are some gazillion self help tapes, books, seminars and Ecourses available and unfortunately, many of them are rip offs.

How do you protect yourself?

Visit reputable sites
Read reviews
Read Blogs
Join forums on self help
Read the testimonies

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Find out if the site provides you with contact information:

A name
An email
An address
A phone number
If a site doesn’t provide you with any means of contacting them, Don’t Buy!

How to effect real change in your life:

Author Unknown”
“God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it’s me.”

Once you find a product you feel good about, buy it.

Then you must do the footwork. Don’t expect the book to change you. You must change you.

Joan Wallach Scott:
“Those who expect moments of change to be comfortable and free of conflict have not learned their history.”

Rosanne Cash:
“The key to change . . . is to let go of fear.”

Summary

Life changes can only be done by you.

 No matter how good the Ebook, the course, the seminar, the lecture, the video; if you don’t take action there won’t be any change.

No matter how good or bad the material you buy, if you won’t treat and move the feet, nothing changes.
I like these quotes; they sum it up well.

Bruce Barton:
“When you are through changing, you are through.”

Ellen Glasgow:
“The only difference between a rut and a grave is their dimension.”

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